My daughter and I received a lesson the other day in why it is so important to say YES! It was the first windy cold day of the winter season and she was supposed to go to her horse riding lesson.  She asked me if she could not go and although it would have eased the stress of my very busy day, I said that she needed to go.  We got there and she was cold, not having dressed warmly enough.  Once again she begged me to let her miss the lesson.  This time there was no way that I was even tempted to let her miss it as I had now driven there anyway.  In the end she was the only one there and she received a whole hour private lesson!  She was chuffed and so was I.

The universe rewards people who say YES!
Yes comes with a vibrant creative energy!
No stops the flow of energy!

If you want to be in flow with the universe , then say YES as often as you can and watch the magic happen!

Everything is energy and that’s all there is to it.  Match the frequency of the reality you want and you cannot help but get that reality.  It can be no other way.  This is not philosophy.  This is Physics!

Albert Einstein

Perception is based on expectations and expectations are influenced by our beliefs, experiences and all the memories stored in our sub conscious database.

Our mind processes the information that it receives via the senses based on the information that it already has stored.    
How you perceive the world is your own individual reality!  It may be similar to someone else’s, however you contain your own unique database of beliefs, experiences, emotions and memories, therefore your interpretation of the world (perception) is always unique to you and as such your personal reality is also unique.

In general we are not taught this principle and this lack of understanding creates conflict between individuals, families, cultural groups and nations.

We assume that we are seeing and interpreting the same thing and in so many cases we are not.  We have our own mind's view and we have convinced ourselves that it is so.  

Understanding that our perception is just our own interpretation allows us to open up to the possibility that there is other realities if we change our thinking.  This the key to liberation and self healing.  This the key to our own power, the power to create a NEW reality!