If you are like me you may have watched the film "The Secret", or read self help books, thinking that they would teach you about the mysterious art of manifesting and that once dutifully watched or read, the universe would miraculously answer all your prayers and grant all your wishes just like the genie in the lamp.
For years I completely understood that "Manifesting my own reality" was possible and I tried many methods of affirmations and thought processes that was going to bring me all the success in the world, alas nothing seemed to change! I tried to live in an "attitude of gratitude" however, I just couldn't sustain it and I became frustrated with my apparent lack of progress. What changed for me was that during a "Source Process & Breathwork" Seminar, I realised that of course everyone can "get what they want", however thinking about what you wanted wasn't enough! What you believe and focused action were the missing pieces of the puzzle.
Step 1: Decide what it is that you want to CREATE, get very clear!
This step is probably the easiest to achieve and where most people get stuck and then can't understand why their desire isn't fulfulled!
Step 2: Believe that you WILL achieve your desires and that you DESERVE to achieve them!
There is no room for doubt in this process, you must TRUST that it is going to happen and then you must believe that you deserve success. Many of you are held back by feelings of low self worth and that you are undeserving of having your dreams fulfilled. You need to heal the negative decisions that you have made about yourself as early as birth, early childhood or maybe even in a past life. There are many methods to do this, I have used breathwork very successfully, however you need to find the one that is right for you!
Step 3: Take focussed action which supports your chosen desire.
There is no point deciding you want a new job, if you don't start searching for it or setting about reskilling so you can get the job you want. The more you do the faster you will achieve your goal! Discipline, committment and work are required here!
Step 4: Be willing to receive your success!
This step is very important as a lot of people sabotage their own success by not following through all the steps and then not stepping up to enjoy the success. This goes back to Step 2, if you don't sort out your self beliefs then you will find it difficult to receive good fortune once it starts coming your way.
Good Luck (luck has nothing to do with it)